Porn

I just had to write this. The pent up social moaner is on the loose after being entrapped in the heap of dust of new year spring cleaning.

Porn. We all have seen it. Admit it. Those pop up windows, those dirty linen of yours, all swept under the carpet also known as your brain. Porn has always been deemed as socially unacceptable, especially in an Asian culture. With all that pent up sexual frustration, men resort to porn to "release" their inner desires.

Everyone is aware of its existence but are shy and deflect from it as a topic of conversation as it is just plain weird to have a porn conversation with anyone including your close friends.

Porn, like technology, helps improve mankind.

There I said it. This is because porn was being discussed with one of my lecturer. Yup, she says porn assisted and "spurted" the growth of humankind. Not that type of "growth" as in babies but to a new level of technology that improves a standard of life. By the way, I was not having a one on one discussion but porn was discussed with 101 students in the lecture hall.

Shocking? Nah. We were discussing about new communication technologies and her introductory level gave new perspective to porn. There is always an agenda when something is done. Like the reason you rob a bank is to get money or to consume fish to have a bigger brain. There is a correlation to what you do.

Regarding porn, it helped humankind to a new level. This was how. Back then in the 1960s, videotapes were nothing but there was a need to exchange unsavoury materials. The videotape industry grew leaps and bounds. Then came the internet but in the early 90s, no one but the industry people had their hands on it. Consumers see the potential of it being a space for unlimited porn, hence the progress. Now, the digital age we are in, more technology boundaries are being conquered because of the advent of porn.

Since we are at the topic of porn, i have this question which I posed to a male lecturer of mine.

The question goes like this. "Who of the following will you have better sex if you are a virgin yourself, which in this scenario, you love both of them equally?

A. A female virgin
B. A female gal who has slept around with a few guys but finally choosing you.

Most of the feedback I got is A. the virgin because they like the exclusivity that virgins are. My option would be B. though because she being the "experienced" person, she would know the "birds and the bees" that is invovled. Her experience would be invaluable in me providing good sex as she would be able to show me the ropes as how she learnt from her past encounters.

The theory behind this is about good sex or about getting anything right. You need to try a few things before you settle down on one. Like editing a video clip and using various softwares before deciding which one is the best for you so that you can have the best possible transition, best possible effect, best possible overall look.

Unless you chose the right one from the start, you have the luck then. This is so said the same for love. It is practically impossible to choose the right person from the beginning. You have to go out there, test waters to see the individuals that match you and the chemistry that will be bubbling.

Love, porn and sex in one topic. What more do you one ?

All three of this has one common factor. Luck u get in getting laid, getting off to the best material and finding your life partner. Luck. Is what the world is lacking now.

- Benjamin